Wearing that slinky top to the bar not helping you snag the studs anymore? You could just look for a commitment-free hookup online. That's what an increasing number of women are doing, according to data collected by international dating site Plentyoffish.com.The site looked at 315,478 users frequenting no-strings-attached dating sites. Since 2004, the number of women seeking only an "intimate encounter" has risen from 9 to 18 percent. And while men seemed to outnumber women 10 to one in the quest for a casual tryst back then, today's ratio is only five to one.
Some might chalk up the change in females' approach to casual canoodling to those oh-so-sexually open "Sex and the City" gals. And of course, some women have more sex than others.
But the spike might actually be due to the increased number of sites on which to look for dating and sex. In addition to spots for the general public like CraigsList, there are now specialized sites based on everything from certain populations (such as Jdate.com, for Jews) to sexual appetites (Lavalife.com).
Sure there's the usual biological explanation for why humans sometimes try to shack up with everything in sight -- the innate drive to propagate the species. Nevertheless, women have still not "adapted" to doing it like a man. Research shows meaningless lovemaking makes many women depressed. So, before you fall into bed with the fella you just met, take inventory of this checklist.
Tell us: Do you think women often enjoy one-night stands?
Also on Lemondrop: These bad boys set the bar for bawdy behavior -- are women today just following their lead!?
Hot Bod Cold Heart
Mario Lopez Who knew that A.C. Slater was such a dirtbag? The buff "Dancing with the Stars" stud reportedly cheated on one ex-girlfriend with a Hooters girl, and his two-week marriage to Ali Landry ended when she learned of his bachelor party antics.
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Jude Law He may be gorgeous (and who can resist that accent?) but not so hot was his cheating on then-fiancee Sienna Miller with the nanny to his kids. Miller and Law eventually broke up, and her downward rebound spiral led her into the arms of mangy Rhys Ifans.
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Matt Damon Although he has denied it, Minnie Driver says she discovered she was dumped by watching "Oprah. Say what!? The "Sexiest Man Alive" told the talk show host he was no longer dating Driver; Driver claims it was the first she'd heard of their breakup.
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Hugh Grant Who could forget the Hugh Grant scandal that rocked Hollywood in 1995? Grant was pulled over by LA police for lewd conduct with prostitute Divine Brown. Girlfriend Liz Hurley forgave him and even appeared on his arm at the premiere of "Nine Months" days after his arrest.
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David Beckham What is it with married celebrities and the hired help? Although he has always denied it (and ok, so there's no proof), Becks was accused in 2004 of sleeping with then-personal assistant Rebecca Loos.
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Chace Crawford We know two things about the "Gossip Girl" boy: He's a total hottie, and he dumped Carrie Underwood via text. US Weekly reported in April 2008 that the pair "mutually" parted ways via cellular phones.
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Charlie Sheen Among other lowlights, Sheen 'accidentally' shot ex-fiancee Kelly Preston, spent thousands on madam Heidi Fleiss, and symbolically took a chainsaw to his wedding portrait with Denise Richards. Ew.
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Ethan Hawke We were sad enough when this brainy babe's artsy-smartsy marriage to Uma Thurman ended. But to then shack up and have a baby with the nanny to his kids with the hot blonde? For shame!
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Ryan PhilippeAlthough never officially confirmed, rumors still swirl that Ryan Philippe's divorce from his all-American wife Reese Witherspoon had a little something to do with an on-set affair with actress Abbie Cornish, now his girlfriend. Hmm.
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MC Harvey This UK recording artist was caught in the act with his wife's good friend. Who caught them? The other woman's then-boyfriend. Now that's some drama, folks.
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Tuesday 04 November
By Deena
Yes, I think more and more women are enjoying no strings sex. Why should we go without sex because Mr. Right hasn't come around? And some of us aren't even looking for him.
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Tuesday 04 November
By David
I think your thinking Deena
Tuesday 04 November
By Bob
I like your way thinking. There are alot of benifits to friends with benifits...no commitment, no promises, no I'm sorry's, just how may I help you and in how many ways!!!
Tuesday 04 November
By Jack Daniels
So what is new, women in America are soo easy! They have been walking around just looking to get laid by the first man that smiles at them! This is not news!
Tuesday 04 November
By Harkhonnen
Sorry to bust your bubble but there are no Mr. Rights and the sooner you recognize and accept this fact the better off you will be. Men are who they are and we don't have to subscribe to your definition as to what we should or should not be. Sex with no strings is just that sex and it ain't for everyone because not every soul is looking to settle down. This is a dream come true for a lot of men and notice that I said some.
Tuesday 04 November
By Deena
Yes, I think more and more women are enjoying no strings sex. Why
should we go without sex because Mr. Right hasn't come around? And
some of us aren't even looking for him. And we have needs too.
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Tuesday 04 November
By Kevin
i totally agree with u deena. sex doesnt constitute a relationship, but hey its something that we all need once n a while so i totally agree with u baby!!!
Kevin W. Richmond, Va
Tuesday 04 November
By Rhonda
Why hot have no strings attatched. You dont have to live with them or put up with them. Long enough to get the job done and then adios. Heck of a lot cheaper than divorce. Or you can get married come home early from work and find your husband in bed with another chick. Been there done that, not going to happen again anyways not to this girl. Got burnt once.
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Tuesday 04 November
By mary
If we women want no-strings sex then that is when we should get out our toys. If we want someone to care if we are satisfied or try to make it as enjoyable for us as it always is for them, then you need more than a one night stand. A one night stand might scratch an itch but it will leave you hollow and empty inside.
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Wednesday 05 November
By Artie
Hey hey hey, some of us actually enjoy getting you ladies off as much as we like to get off!
Tuesday 04 November
By Jeff
Finally our dream is becoming a reality.......the male race has been waiting for this kind of woman for a long long time!
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Tuesday 04 November
By playanj
where the hell are all you easy chicks when i need one? lol
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Tuesday 04 November
By tricia
well i'm here....let's hook up
Tuesday 04 November
By American Pride
Finally our dreams are becoming a reallity.......the male race has been waiting for this kind of woman for a long long time!
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Tuesday 04 November
By Ron
Yes I know I have been waiting on this comment to no avail...willing but can't find.
Tuesday 04 November
By cathy
the male race has been waiting for this a long time.?...lol....just keep in mind...if your not good, youll be waiting a long long time....news gets around...women do share , and joke too...
Tuesday 04 November
By Miranda
It's about time women are in control of the sex scene and how it will play-out.
There's nothing wrong with having a guy strictly for sex and nothing else.
20 years ago it was mainstream for a man to have a woman in his bed, and all he was searching for was no-strings sex (usually the woman thought otherwise) and now women are not preferring a relationship in connection to sex as they used to. .But the men seem to be.
Sexual karma I'd say!!!
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Tuesday 04 November
By Dale
You MUST be joking!!!! Since when is sex NOT controlled by women???? I love sex, but if "she" (whoever she may happen to be) doesn't want it, I don't get it, either. I'm not about to force it on her, that's rape.
The reason women haven't really gone after NSA sex is because of the risk of pregnancy. That's one reason guys don't really have to worry about it. We can't get pregnant, so we can screw around as much as we like.
Personally, I'm not like that. I used to have a guitarist in my band (in fact, twice I had a guy like this) whose motto should've been, "Have dick: will travel". Both of these guys were married (one had 6 kids with her!) and they were STILL picking up EVERY peace of fluff they get their glands in. The really rotten side of it is, when these women would show up again later on, they got kicked to the curb like a used condom.
Another married guitarist of mine liked the following joke: What's the difference between a washing machine and a woman? A washing machine doesn't follow you around after you dump a load into it.
Initially, it was funny, but then I thought about what he'd just said a minute ago and I didn't think the joke was funny anymore. I know I wouldn't like to be thought of that way if I was a woman, so, I wouldn't think that way about them, either. It's pretty rude!!
Dale
Tuesday 04 November
By Mark
This so called temperary self gratification won't work and can't work for women period. First of all, GOD didn't design women nor men to be whoremongers especially women because of their emotional make up. Second the women is getting penetrated not the man, that vigina give you value to the highest bidder, the fact that you are a virgin and woman of quality and morals, makes mr. right want you even more. Finall 3rd, women are just giving us men all the power anyway because after we hit it!!! You've just lost all your bargaining power and on to the next girl we go.
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Tuesday 04 November
By angel.pie
OMG dear you obviously know nothing about the emotional makeup of women. Sex and servitude are the only purposes women serve in men's eyes. We are just looking for the sex without the lifetime of service.
We don't want "bargaining power", we don't want to do your dishes and laundry and pickup after you for the rest of your life, we just want to have sex like all other humans. Yes, women are human, a little known concept.