Everyone's talking about the skinny (or too skinny?) stars of the new "90210" remake and the damaging influence they may have on young viewers. But it shouldn't affect me, right? I'm a smart, healthy, professional woman, and I know that being 90 lbs. and able to fit into child-sized jeans is not the recipe for self-satisfaction. I've never had an eating disorder, and I'm well aware that toothpick legs don't equal healthy. And I really don't care about the latest Nicole Richie sized tween on TV. So why do they make me feel so ... well ... big?
Since I have a deep attachment to the original series (Brenda + Dylan 4ever!), I tuned in to the first episode with the new cast. And, I admit, I had a knee-jerk, gut reaction to seeing Annie Wilson's legs and realizing they're roughly the size of my upper arms. I knew what was happening, and I felt ashamed for caring that I now have the body of a woman versus that of a teen, curves and all.
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It made me wonder -- just how "dangerous" are these images of pencil-thin girls who look as though they may break a bone if they hug each other too hard? I'm not talking about the damage they might cause to young teenagers -- that seems pretty obvious. But what about us grown women? What about those of us who supposedly know better, who are (or should be) far too busy to compare our bodies to every girl we pass on the street?
According to the National Eating Disorder Association's Media Watchdog program, though "media messages screaming 'thin is in' may not directly cause eating disorders, they help to create the context within which people learn to place a value on the size and shape of their body."
90210's biggest audience is 18- to 34-year-old women. Though many of us haven't experienced true eating disorders, who among us hasn't had disordered eating for fear of a few extra pounds? I'd be hard-pressed to find any 20-something who hasn't regretted eating too much one night and the next day "punished" herself by eating only salad. Does seeing excessive thinness on teenage actresses in prime time really pose a threat to us?
What do you think? Are we smart enough to laugh off these skeletal role models? Or can we still be affected by unrealistic ideals of beauty and perfection, even though we know better?
Corrie Driebusch regularly writes about health for Lemondrop.
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Thursday 25 September
By carodeluxe
One of the actresses on '90210' is indeed only 15 or 16 (I think), and some girls at that age just are really, really skinny because they haven't fully filled out. But the girl who plays Silver (?) is just as thin as the rest of them, and she's 22. That's not normal. Is she staying scrawny to try to look like she's still 16? It just looks gross.
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Saturday 27 September
By Mandee
I think that it does have impact on young women. I have had an eating disorder for most of my adolescence and still struggle with disordered eating so it does hit a "sore spot" so to say. In my opinion it does send a very wrong message to teens and young women but there will probably always be actresses that do. My big problem isn't really that they have this skinny girls on the show it's that that's ALL they have! They have one type of body on that show. Naturally skinny girls and women do exist and need to be represented but so do a lot of other sizes and shapes.
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Friday 03 October
By Texas River Rat
I agree with the post by Mantee ... I, too, was a "social x-ray" for many years and although I couldn't have pointed to a certain person I did compare myself to impossibly thin women. At a healthy weight I have pencil legs, so imagine how attractive I was @ 35# underweight I went from pencil to toothpick and right onto broomstraw!
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Thursday 02 October
By unknown
THEY ARE BOTH SMOKING HOT. I prefer skinny woman like that.
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Thursday 02 October
By BROSE
The problem is women judging each other . most men are pretty open with weight as long as with in means , even most women dont really like obese men but a little weight is not a bad thing.
most guys dont expect supermodels but we also dont want 200 lb pluss either.
BUT THAT SKINNY WHERE YOU CAN SEE RIBS AND BONES IS JUST NASTY . WHY WOULD I WANT A SKELETON FOR A GIRLFRIEND OR WIFE ??
(not to be perverted but i want to enjoy a soft sexy woman not a lose sack bones like a pillowcase full of metal bars) and yes some men are obsessed with thin.
we fall victom to this crap the media shows us .
this is what a women should look like BS.
if you want a good gage of healthy men and women forms look at an athlele not an actor.
since when did someone pretending to be other people become roll models .
people get a life, you have to know what real and whats 1/10 of 1% of reallity.
FAMOUS DOES NOT MEAN WISE AND RIGHT.
as far as weight read a heatlh book .
to skinny it as bad as to fat.
yes most of us arent perfect .
most wont ever be.
IT IS OUR FLAWS THAT MAKE US WHO WE ARE
DONT GET MAD IF YOU DONT AGREE I SAID MOST NOT ALL OR 100%
EVERYBODY HASE PERSONAL TASTES .
SOME PEOPLE LIKE THIN SOME LIKE THICK SOME LIKE
EXTREME ON BOTH SIDES
DONT JUDGE JUST LOVE EACH OTHER
BE COOL ALL .Brose : )
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Friday 03 October
By Alicia
Well I have to agree and disagree with all. I agree women should not compare themselves to the extent that they become unhealthy or starve themselves to look thin or like models. I think it's unsexy to try and be stick thin, but if you are born that way, it's not right to have someone call you "gross" or "sunsexy" because of your body type.
Yes it all comes down to preference- But I can say at 5'6 and 23yrs, I have just started to be able to gain weight. I struggled all throughout school having people call me skinny. 115 seems to be a healthy weight for me- I eat like crazy and even went through a phase of drinking Ensure with all my meals to try and get bigger. Those girls on 90210 are skinny for their career and that industry is cut-throat. That's what makes it unsexy....
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Friday 03 October
By Mal
wow...now i feel fat....
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Friday 03 October
By Cynthia
I know I'm late responding to this but I see these girls and they are just too thin. I mean too thin for teens too. I see girls with curves all the time and they are teenagers.. They edleast have a little something these girls are tiny tiny. Its weird. they're faces look ok but its just their bodies are so thin. They have no breasts, hips or anything I know they are playing young girls but they have bodies like 10 year olds... somethings not right.
Its funny. I see the relationship between Silver and the adopted son ( forgot his name)... I was thinkin in real life would he really be with her? Most black men ( or boys like something to hold onto). eh just my opinion
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Friday 03 October
By Sophee
some people are naturally thin like me and it makes those naturally skinny people feel bad aswell!!
Like they say, People who have bones sticking out are like a skeleton (Yes i know some people starve themselves to look skinny but really boys like natural slim, fat whatever!) I mean like dont just think about sticking up for the 'Large people' Please think about what you type before you coment it please x
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Friday 03 October
By just a thought
I agree completely, the media now a days is projecting this stick thin woman, some of them remind me of the pictures you would see of starving people across the world. Yet at the same time I find myself thinking of my gosh I want to look like that, WHY?? I have to remind myself that even if I starved my bones alone are thicker then these girls and that being their size is completely unrealistic. That doesnt stop me however, skipping meals, feeling unbelievably guilty after eating ANYTHING. I may still eat but how long will that last? Every bite I take I beat myself up for, all because I feel like you must be thin in todays society. I am not even that big, if I feel this bad I cant even imagine what other girls are going through, so here is my question why cant curves be in?
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Saturday 04 October
By brit
Omg they are so friggin skinny oh gawd i'm 16 and my body don't look like that ....
but then again how many actresses really do have good bodies?i mean curves,actually have a butt lol not many of course
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Tuesday 07 October
By Senil
Oh for chrissake. If you're going to aspire towards a smoking hot celebrity, make it a Rihanna - slender, but fit and without bones sticking out all over the place. Curves are always better than bones (but I'm not an advocate for muffin tops, either - put the curves in the right places and dress the part!). Looking at the ribs on that skinny tart up at the top of the screen makes me cringe - and like Sophee said, this has an effect on us "skinny" people, too. I've got a tiny bone structure, I'm 5'5 and 112 lbs - clinically underweight, but I've got some muscle tone and no bones poking out anywhere. Kind of terrifying to think about how underweight these poor girls must be to be displaying every bone in their ribcage when they wear a slinky little dress.
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Wednesday 08 October
By JEANINE137
Writer Corrie you said that ,"we were affected by the unrealistic ideals of beauty and perfection." Do you really think this is beautiful or perfect? They look like lollipop heads. Young girls are vomitting their food to look like that and that is disgusting.
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Thursday 09 October
By Joe
If I wrote an article entitled "Why the Fat Girls on 90210 Scare Me" I'd be tarred and feathered and run out of town on a rail, even (or especially) if it were true. Why the double standard? It's OK to be fat but it is not OK to be thin? Who are you to say what someone else should weigh, heavy or light? It is not your body.
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Thursday 09 October
By Tom
I thought they were both hot on the show. Looking at this picture, I was wrong. Too thin. You can see the one girls ribs like an Ethiopian. As an American male, a girl has to have some meat on her, not fat, but not looking like they should only come out on Halloween. That thin is gross not attractive.
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Tuesday 23 December
By Michelle
The thing that irks me is that we hear about the obesity epidemic in newspapers, magazines, etc. and that we should do anything to avoid becoming overweight. Yet, in these same magazines, all we see are skinny women. Is this what we are supposed to look like? There really is no medium and I think the younger generation gets confused by that.
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Thursday 05 February
By marilin
Hey every one,
I think that more and more of us are becoming more self-conscious of our looks because of the media images we see today. I used to be happy about my weight now I am trying to be thin. But why should I feel this way? I think the answer lies in all the magazines and tv shows I see. I see thin and that's all I want to be. I feel that I shouldn't feel this way nor should any young 23 year old feel bad about her self image but unfortunately we are in a world that only cares about who can fit in a size 00.
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